dusty rose

dusty blue

terra cotta









industrial buildings

disco balls

colorful buildings

Bohemian glam

floral garland


velvet Blazers

ranunculus & anemones


leather jackets

bolo ties

dark & edgy palettes

monstera & pampas grass

Palms & dahlias

fruit & herbs ice cubes

mixed metals

Smoke Bombs

fun colors!

piano bar

confetti tosses

ombre dresses & veils

macrame backdrops

floral suits & ties

balloon installations

modern fonts

doughnut bars

clever quotes & puns signs

mix-match groomsmen & bridesmaids

smore's bar

colorful veils

clear tents

Bold lip colors


statement earrings

wedding maps



food trucks


floral backdrops

custom illustrations

live paintings

custom place settings


neon signs

moody hues

open air receptions

sequin suits

statement furniture rentals

ideas + trends

Keeping the traditional elements of a wedding day with a fun twist, epic party and seriously gorgeous + unique details! 

wedding planning guide

i know it's a lot of reading But i promise all the information provided is meant too give your the Best possible photography experience!


getting ready


The getting ready space is just as important as your venue. Hotel rooms typically are not the greatest if they have a bed smack dab in the middle of the room. The getting ready location should be spacious and if at all possible match the vibe and look of the day. Consider an AirBnB, hotel suite, getting ready at home or a room at the venue if they have one. And don't forget the guys, they need an awesome space too! Space and light are the most important thing. 


I typically arrive 1 hour before the ceremony to capture details, the end of hair/makeup, candids and getting dressed. Pad your timeline a little in case hair/makeup runs late. It is important to not to feel rushed as it causes unnecessary stress at the beginning of the day. 


The ideal getting ready space is spacious and bright with window light. Turning on lights in the room can cause weird yellow/orange tint and I prefer to having gorgeous natural sunlight shining in. 

Keep it clean

Please, please, please try to keep the clutter to a minimum. I know there is a lot going on but if you can confine it to a corner or closet your photos will look so much better! Bags, beverages and clothing sprawled everywhere does not make for an amazing backdrop. 




have IT ready FOR me!

Your details are what I photograph when I first arrive. Have all of the dresses hanging with all of the pins, stuffing and tags removed. Everything else should be in one spot for me to grab, it's helpful to have a bag or small box to put it all in. Please have the all the rings at whatever getting ready location I am going to.


Think about getting a wooden, metal or acrylic hanger for your dresses and suit. They photograph well and are great keepsakes for years to come.


Here's some ideas of what to have for your details photos: rings (engagement and both wedding bands), earrings, necklace, bracelets, shoes, veil, hairpieces, perfume, invitations, printed pieces, bouquets, loose florals/greenery (ask your florist!), lace, fabric, ribbon, keepsake ring boxes.


Here's some ideas of what to have for your details photos: suit, shoes, socks, watch, cologne, tie/bowtie, boutineer.


Letters, gifts, cultural items, heirloom pieces.


first look


A first look is when you see each other before the ceremony.


A first look should absolutely be done if we will have no sunlight after the ceremony for formal portraits. Personally, I think it's a great way to have a private moment alone.

You'll get more photos

If you do a first look we will be able to do bridal party and family formal portraits before the ceremony. Leaving time after the ceremony for any extra family, some cool bridal party shots and more of you two! 

Get into cocktail hour!?

Cocktail hour is reserved for formal portraits indefinitely, BUT if all your portraits are done then you get to mingle with your guests and enjoy the yummy hors d'ouerves and signature drinks you picked out! 


I wander around your venue to find the best light, I will coordinate it!





If your ceremony is outdoors try to plan it for 2 hours before sunset so that your formal portraits can be done during golden hour. 


Please don't have a big microphone stand set in front of you, it blocks you, if it has to be there then stand on the outer side of it. Have your officiant use a hand-held or lapel microphone. If your videographer has microphones then they usually attach it to you in a discreet way. 


When you kiss for the first time hold it! A quick peck can easily be missed and holding it offers different variety of photos of your first kiss!


A really amazing way to exit your ceremony is with confetti, bubbles, flower petals, mini beach balls, balloons, light sabers, metallic streamers, smoke bombs or ribbons. If you're having a night ceremony consider glow sticks or sparklers outside!


Ask your guests not to take photos during the ceremony by having a sign and also having the officiant make an announcement. I'll be honest, the phones/cameras/ipads in the air and blocking the aisle are ugly in photos, they just are. It's the most sacred time of the day and they have the whole cocktail hour + reception to take as many photos as they want. One time a bride legit turned to her guests in the middle of her ceremony and asked them all to put their phones and cameras down to be with them in the moment as it was so important to her. I could not believe she did that but kudos! 


Seasoned officiants usually know to tell guests to sit down once you're down the aisle and the ceremony is about to officially begin....but not all of them remember so there's this awkward time where everyone is looking around wondering what to do. Sometimes I step in and whisper around the crowd for people to sit down and once enough people catch on then we have everyone sitting and I am able to get a wide view shot!




I am seasoned in shooting in any lighting situation from harsh light to pitch black. I work with a flash setup indoors, no need to worry about dark spaces :) Keep in mind that a daytime wedding in bright sunlight is going to look different than an evening wedding in softer sunlight. 



Sunset is usually around 7:30pm making 5-6pm the ideal ceremony start time to get the great golden sunlight for portraits. 


I live for the long days but they usually last until about 9pm so that often means some hot harsh light for your outdoor ceremony and formal portraits. Be prepared to sweat through expensive clothing.


This can go one of two ways, before daylights savings there will likely still be bright lush greenery outside and sunset around 7:30pm again, but after daylights savings the leaves have changed to their Autumn gloriousness and the sun goes down around 4:45pm.


It's dark and it's cold. The trees are bare, it's usually cloudy and the sun goes down around 4pm. Plan for most, if not all, photos to be done indoors. I personally love to brave the cold for formal portraits if you are down for it!


cocktail hour

you'll likely miss it

Unless you do a first look this time is exclusively carved out for your formal portraits. I agree that it would be amazing to attend cocktail hour to mingle with your guests BUT your reception is the longest part of the day and you will party with them then! You want your portraits, trust me, you want them. We can work fast to get you in there but your photos are very important to your family too. 


If we plan the timing right and get you into cocktail hour then I use this small window to photograph your reception setup completely untouched!


I know photobooths are typically setup during the reception but cocktail hour is a great time for your guests to enjoy it too! 


Aside from the usual drinking, eating and mingling you can give your guests some fun activities, games or entertainment.


formal portraits

family + wedding party


If you can coordinate everyone before the ceremony, this is best. Gathering after the ceremony can be time consuming, people often reference it as hearding cats, haha! 


It takes about 30-40 minutes for these photos. I cannot stress this enough: YOU WANT THESE PHOTOS. Please do not skimp on your formal portrait time, it is usually the shortest time of the day and the photos that are treasured most for lifetimes, you want these photos. 


I provide a portrait list of standard groupings and I have you review it on your timeline before the wedding to make changes if needed because everyone has a different family dynamic. I encourage you to keep it simple and add names, being able to call out the names of people in each grouping makes a world of difference :)


This is a lot of people to wrangle, ask someone to be the designated 'people gatherer'. Make sure they are someone who knows everyone on both sides. 


My typical portrait list includes parents, siblings and grandparents. If you want photos with whole sides of the family adjust for more time and we should do them first! This way extended family can head into cocktail hour and immediate family sticks around. 


couples portraits


If you want to do a First Look set aside 15-20 minutes for this. I will capture your reactions to seeing each other and then you can have a few minutes alone together.

post ceremony

After the bridal party and family portraits we need around 15-30 minutes to get the good stuff, I'll be directing you for poses. Ideally this would be sunset.


Night portraits! About 15-30 minutes before my coverage ends I like to step out and take photos using a flash setup. It creates dreamy and cool portraits! 


I do everything in my power to create amazing portraits. Give me at least 30 minutes during golden hour or enough time to setup lighting for night/indoor photos and yes you will get those bomb ass photos you see in my portfolio. I am not here to take over your wedding day and make photos the center of attention but you are also hiring me for a reason and I want you to have the best experience.





While there is a general timeline for receptions, it is flexible unlike the rest of the day so you can finally relax and unwind! This is the fun candid part of the day!


Menus look great on place settings but they can be costly to print for each plate. You can have a fancy one made just for me by a calligrapher or great printing site so I can take an awesome place setting photo!


I do not photograph people eating. For timing purposes the best time for me to be served is when you are served so I do not miss anything. I can't tell you how many times I have been taken away to a room to eat my meal and then slightly hear the announcement for something important and come running in just missing a moment. Fun fact: I used to work in catering for years. They charge couples for vendor meals and then serve us after all the guests to make sure there is "enough", or serve something like a sandwich and bag of chips. Be sure to ask what exactly you are paying for! Not all caterers do this of course :)


Some fun ways to exit your wedding reception are confetti, ribbons, flower petals, sparklers, mini beach balls, glow sticks, light sabers, bubbles, balloons, metallic streamers or smoke bombs. My favorite is confetti after ceremonies and sparklers at the end of the night and you can always do a combo of 2 things! Be extra!


advice +tips​


wedding planner

Wedding planners are the most glorious thing, seriosuly if it is in your budget I highly recommend booking one ASAP. If not a full on wedding planner then a month of coordinator or day of coordinator is a must. Your venue coordinator is not your day of coordinator, they work for the venue. You need someone working for you, making sure your vision is brought to life, someone who will handle everything behind the scenes. 


Your​ vendors are so much more than just vendors, they should be a team and on the same page when it comes to your wedding plans. You need to trust cannot control everything on your wedding day so you need to trust them completely. Be sure to look at reviews and view their portfolios. I promise you a wedding team on the same page makes for a phenomenal day! Also, read your contracts, I know it's so much reading but contracts outline the process, terms and expectations of every client/business relationship. 


Create an email introducing all of your vendors to each other, make sure timelines are shared and everyone knows what to expect. In general us vendors know the ins and outs of wedding but it's best to communicate with each one what your expectations are because not everything is standard at each wedding. Magic doesn't always just happen, sometimes we need to make it happen :) Creating a mass email for your entire wedding party and family is super helpful. That way everyone is in the loop on timing and expectations!

your ceremony is the reason for it all

It's easy to get lost in wedding planning, color palettes, details and design elements. I know how much goes into a wedding from the fonts on invitations to the food you eat, it's a lot. Your wedding should be scheduled around your ceremony. Think about it... this is the first time all of your guests see you, this is your vows of commitment to marriage, this is the center of your wedding. 


I know, I know, everyone talks about this to death and trust me I used to be way more traditional but my hubby and I rode to our wedding together, in fact he zipped me into my dress. If you do choose to do a first look keep three things in mind: lighting, location and being done at least 30 minutes before the ceremony so nobody sees you. Bonus! You get almost double the photos if you do a first look, there's such a variety!

travel time + TiMELINES

Factor travel time into your day if you're getting ready, ceremony or reception locations differ. Consider traffic and delays as well when working on a timeline. I keep talking about timelines and sticking to a schedule, it's not because I am a time freak. I am actually really calm and chill but I watch the clock all day for 2 reasons: 1. light, I stalk the sun and weather 2. because there are so many vendors and elements that make up your wedding day. Everyone has a job to do and running really late affects everyone in attendance. 

you want these photos 

I'm going to be a smidge bossy right now: If you are a person that hates being photographed just set that aside for the day. It's just 1 hour out of one day for formal portraits and then there's 3-5 hours of reception time to party. After the day is over you have gorgeous photos for the rest of your life. I was so wrapped up in mingling and drinking all of the wine we selected that formal portraits took a back seat and it will forever be one of my biggest regrets. The day will go by quicker than you think and it can sometimes be a blur, so in the moment you may want to decline certain things suggested to you but....I will say it 

stay sober-ish until cocktail hour 

This goes for everyone, I am all about moving quickly so we can stay on time and be efficient..and there's nothing like having a family member or wedding party completely sloshed to slow things WAY down. Definitely entertaining, but not ideal :) 

your dress will get dirty

Accept it and embrace it. Your dress and the bridesmaid dresses will get dirty, there is no way around it. If your dress touches the ground it will drag across any surface whether it's a floor or the grass. Worrying about your dress is an unnecessary stress. Just let it happen and you can even get some epic photos like laying down for me to get an aerial shot or going into a wooded area or somewhere really cool. 

make it happen!

I cannot photograph what is not there and what is not provided for me. I capture what is in front of me and work around whatever circumstances or lighting situation or cooperation I am given. No two weddings are alike, each unique in their own way as they should be. 


You don't need a full on cheesy smile the whole day but just be mindful of your face walking down the aisle! This goes for the entire wedding party.

things to remember...

 Coverage is consecutive

Please keep that in mind for any travel time between locations, breaks between wedding events and brief moments of downtime.

The assistant photographer is the backup photographer

I've spent over 5 years learning to document weddings myself, completely and beautifully. I bring an assistant photographer along to help me and serve as a built in backup 


This is the first step in your wedding photography process. I send you a custom private profile with a login link and password to make all of your payments. I send the contract to both of you to sign electronically. I try to keep this process as simple as possible and do it all online. You're officially booked once both the retainer fee is paid and contract is signed. For more information on the process check here.


After your retainer is paid the remaining balance is split into 2 payments, the first is due 30 days before your wedding and the final payment is due 7 days before your wedding. The payment schedule and due dates are outlined in your wedding profile and on your contract. Late payments acquire a $30 per day late fee. All payments made are non-refundable.  

engagement session

The engagement session I offer to couples is an optional add-on. For ideas and info on locations /what to wear checkout the Portrait Planning Guide here.


A few months before your wedding I send you a questionnaire to fill out. It is imperative you fill this out so that I can be fully prepared/educated and provide the very best. There is a sample questionnaire in your wedding profile and a sample timeline to give you an idea of the information I need and how I work. 


Your final wedding gallery will be delivered 10-12 weeks after your wedding date. I send you a link to an online gallery where you can download all of the photos to your computer or do individual downloads on your phone. All of the images I deliver are fully edited and high resolution quality. Share the gallery link with family and friends so they can download/print on their own. If your package came with an album I will send you instructions for choosing the image for your album order. 

you did it!  thanks for reading! your wedding will be ah-mazing!


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getting ready locations

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suits & ties

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